Kalau seseorang cakap “Eh, die tu kan jahat tau! Baik kau jauhkan diri dari dia,” lagilah aku nk kenal org “jahat” tersebut. Sebab aku rasa tak adil kan kau memilih kawan berdasarkan review org lain terhadap org tersebut. So, selalunya aku akan kenal dulu dgn org “jahat” tersebut dan kalau mmg betul die tu “jahat”, why not give him or her another chance?
Aku rasa nk jd cikgu nanti kena byk bg second, third, fourth, fifth, entah ke berapa chance pada anak murid. Sebab aku tau mcm maner rasanya org put a label to you and expect you to act accordingly. Sungguh tak adil. Kekadang org tu tak mcm yg kau sangka, tp sebab kau dah meletakkan label yg org tu mcm tu, so org tu pun akan mengikut label yg kau berikan.
Kalau seseorang mengatakan yg “Do you believe in second chances?” I would say yes. Life is all about taking chances, if you want to play it safe, please wear a condom. But of course, people say sex sucks with condom on although it is safe. Imagine condom is that label that you put on people. Kalau semua org kau labelkan, siapa lagi yg tnggal untuk kau?
So, bagi aku, tak kiralah kau jahat ke, baik ke, kalau aku rasa nak kenal dgn kau, aku akan berusaha kenal dgn kau. Aku takkan membenarkan condom, eh label menyebabkan aku menjadi org yg play it safe. So, sape nk kenal ngn aku????? Hehehehe….
i agree about the condom, it reduces the pleasure but you have to stick with it...talking from my own experience.
ReplyDeleteso,do u agree that we have to use condom when picking friend. in other words, picking fren with caution? just like practising safe sex?
ReplyDeleteyou pick your friend with caution, you might be safe. Like condom, you can choose not to use it after you feel confident about your sex partner, same with friend. you can discard your caution after a while.
ReplyDeletenot using condom - pure bliss but not everyone get infected with STD when they choose to have sex with everyone they like, if you ran into bad luck, then do correction asap. same with friend.
thanx for your view. i do agree though that we do need to exercise caution when picking friends to avoid comolications later. but yeah, being a free spirit, i tend to pick the wrong persons to associate with and that always cause me great consequences later. no sweat though, what is life without mistakes, huh..
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